Which way out?

“I am trapped, lost, helpless, and so ashamed.” Do you know someone like that? Perhaps a family member or friend. They have been miserable for so long that they can no longer even remember what warm sunshine feels like. They live in constant pain; not just psychological but perhaps even...

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Why does God hate sex?

“Aren’t the Biblical rules on sex outdated and bigoted?” God designed sex and he designed it to be pleasurable. But he also designed it for marriage. And he designed marriage for one man and one woman for life. In a heterosexual, committed, monogamous, consensual, marital relationship sex is blessed by...

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Why can’t I just be happy?

“Doesn’t God just want me to be happy?” Happiness is nice, but it is overrated in our modern culture. There are many things much more important and valuable than happiness. Faith, family, integrity, righteousness, and responsibility just to name a few. However, as a goal or objective, happiness is toxic....

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Why do I still need God?

“Hasn’t science made God obsolete?” The more we understand about the cosmos, the more apparent it is that there is a Designer. At one time science thought the cell was a gooey blob. Now we know that it is filled with sophisticated molecular machines. There are more of these machines...

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Why does God allow pain?

“If there is a God why is there evil in the world?” A world without evil, pain, and suffering is a world without choice, without consequence, and without challenge. Such a world would have no need of God. Evil doesn’t disprove God’s existence; it makes him necessary. How much do...

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How can I believe the Bible?

“Isn’t the Bible full of errors?” The Bible is the most reliable book of antiquity. There are more copies, and more ancient copies of the Bible than any other book. Other ancient texts might have a dozen copies that were copied hundreds of years after the original. But the Bible...

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Does anyone care?

Yes!  There are many people who care about you. Even though the world is more connected than ever before, people feel more disconnected and forgotten then ever before. But, while the world has changed dramatically, God has not changed. He designed you and he loves you. He loves you more...

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What happened to us?

We vowed, “To love and cherish.” Now we can’t stand each other. Marriage can become so difficult that people who once loved each other so much they couldn’t see straight now can’t stand the sight of each other. And there are no easy or quick solutions. However, it doesn’t have...

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